7 Best Holiday Planners

7 Best Holiday Planners

7 Best Holiday Planners 

Start your engines. It's list making season.

Gift lists. Meal lists. Grocery lists. Budget lists. Event lists. Lists. Lists. Lists.

Every list reflects decisions made. How much to spend. What to cook. What to buy.

And of course, the most important decision is whether to create all of these lists on paper or your phone, computer, or tablet. (Or a combination.) This is a BIG decision.

I am a combo gal. There is no way I am adding up a column of numbers by hand no matter how cute the piece of paper is where I wrote the numbers down. I normally make my grocery list on the Alexa app, but Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner grocery lists are more complicated and need a piece of paper divided by section in the store.

No matter how you like to plan you can find your ideal planner in this list of 10 Best Holiday Planners.

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7 Best Holiday Planners

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Best Free Holiday Planners

BEST FREE PRINTABLE HOLIDAY PLANNER:

Stress Less this Christmas with a FREE Printable Planner designed by Tammy Rotzell of Footprints of Inspiration. 

BEST FREE DIGITAL HOLIDAY PLANNER:

If you are digital all the way, check out this FREE holiday planning template designed to work with a FREE AirTable Account.

Best Holiday Planners

best holiday planners - the christmas project

BEST HOLIDAY PLANNER FOR ORGANIZING BY PROJECT

The Christmas Project by Kathi Lipp

I love how The Christmas Project is organized into projects with step-by-step directions for getting organized and having your best Christmas season.

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BEST PRICED COMBO THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS HOLIDAY PLANNER

This beautiful Holiday Planner Bundle is currently on sale for $4.90!!!

 

Gorgeous printable Christmas planner

MOST GORGEOUS HOLIDAY PLANNER

 

Turn up your holiday cheer with this absolutely gorgeous holiday planner. It is only $6.40!! This same Etsy shop has several other beautiful choices.

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PRETTIEST DIGITAL HOLIDAY PLANNER

 

Prefer a digital solution to your planning? Check out this pretty Digital Holiday Planner.

quicken

BEST HOLIDAY PLANNER BUDGETING TOOL

I cannot imagine adding up a column of numbers by hand. For all things 2022 there is no reason to do that and risk math errors when Quicken will do this for you. You can make a Christmas budget, download all of your transactions from your bank and credit cards, categorize the expenses however you like, tag gift expenses by recipient, and print it all out in a handy report which you can pretty up with some stickers!

Other Holiday Planning Necessities

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BEST WAY TO ADD HOLIDAY CHEER TO YOUR CALENDAR

I may be the only person out there who needs a line item in her budget for stickers, but there is no better way to cheer up your calendar than with a few stickers. I love Happy Planner stickers. 

These are my Top 7 Best Holiday Planners. Do you have a favorite holiday planner? Leave your suggestions in the comments below.

3 Reasons We Should Pray for Our Kids

3 Reasons We Should Pray for Our Kids

3 Reasons We Should Pray for Our Kids

I first met Tara Cole in a writer's group. Since our time in the group she has gone on to publish here book Everyday Prayers for the School Year. It is a 30 day devotional and journal for moms, which will help you pray for your kids during the school year.

Read her 3 Reasons We Should Pray for Our Kids below and check out her book Everyday Prayers for the School Year.

3 Reasons to pray for our kids

3 Reasons to Pray for Our Kids

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A guest post by Tara L. Cole

As we get into the swing of another school year, you may be helping your kids prepare for college visits, begin a new job, or settle in at college. During this season as it comes time to let go and move from “the boss” to “advisor,” where do we start? How do we guide our kids during these new phases of life? 

It starts in prayer. 

If you’ve been in church for a while, you’ve probably heard a lot of sermons on prayer. Let’s focus on three specific reasons why you should prioritize prayer even more during this season of letting go.

Why We Should Pray for Our Kids Reason #1: Because You’re Invited

The Creator of the Universe, Lord of Heaven’s Armies, invites us to pray to him. Invites us into an intimate relationship with Him. Why would we say, “no?” 

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 tells us: 

Always rejoice, constantly pray,  in everything give thanks. For this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:6-7 also states:

Do not be anxious about anything. Instead, in every situation, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, tell your requests to God. And the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

Then in the verses proceeding the well know Jeremiah 29:11 passage God says

For I know what I have planned for you,’ says the Lord. ‘I have plans to prosper you, not to harm you. I have plans to give you a future filled with hope. When you call out to me and come to me in prayer, I will hear your prayers. When you seek me in prayer and worship, you will find me available to you. If you seek me with all your heart and soul  I will make myself available to you, says the Lord (Jeremiah 29:11-14a, NET).

We love this promise, you’ve probably even quoted it to your kids during times of stress, but we forget that it is proceeded by prayer. As we move into a new season with our kids, we need to remember that those blessings and plans for them are based on a life of prayer and seeking God first. 

 

Why We Should Pray For Our Kids Reason #2: Because You’re Given Examples

We also see this example from our favorite Bible heroes. When they came up against struggles or new seasons in their lives, they began in prayer. 

Before Jesus chose his twelve apostles from his group of disciples he spent the night in prayer (Luke 6:12-16). Then at the Mount of Olives before his crucifixion, Jesus went to God in prayer (Luke  22:39-45). If the son of God prayed, during shifts in his life, who are we to do any less?

While your family is in this time of transition, instead of making never-ending lists and stressing you and your kids out. Begin in prayer. Ask God for his guidance during this time to focus on what matters most. 

 

Why We Should Pray for Our Kids Reason #3: Because You Receive Benefits

Another reason we should pray is that there are so many benefits to prayer! Who in their right mind would say, “No thanks!” When offered peace beyond understanding, a direct line to God, and great and effective power? That is precisely what God promises to us in Philippians 4:7, Proverbs, 15:29, and James 5:16. 

He holds out these blessings with an open hand. All he asks is that we trust him, reach out, and take them. Yet so often we walk away. We don’t trust. We don’t take them. 

We try to navigate this new season of parenting on our own, thinking listening to one more podcast, scrolling through social media, or talking with a friend will give us the wisdom and support we need. Those things might help, but our primary response during these times of uncertainty always needs to be to look to God and His blessings first. 

Seeing our kids launch into the world can be exciting and scary. We hope that the foundation we helped them lay over the last eighteen years has been enough, and they will make wise choices as they leave our homes. 

We might not be there to help them daily, but we have access to the One who is there with them. We can continue to bring them before God in prayer knowing he loves them even more than we do. 

If you need help praying for your kids as they navigate their final years of high school or begin their first years of college, pick up a copy of Everyday Prayers for the School Year wherever books are sold. As a college professor for 15 years, I purposefully wrote this prayer devotional for Moms who have kids of all ages and stages of school. It was written with you and your children in mind. My prayer is that it will help your family draw closer to Jesus this school year. 

 

Tara L. Cole

About Tara

Tara L. Cole is a teacher, wife, and mother to three active boys. She has a Bachelor of Arts in English from Freed-Hardeman University and a Master of Arts in Composition and Rhetoric from the University of Central Oklahoma. Tara has taught communications and writing courses since 2007 at various universities in Oklahoma both in person and online, and she is currently a Communication’s Faculty member at Oklahoma State University Institute of Technology. She is also a recipient of the NISOD Award for Teaching Excellence in 2019 and the Regents Distinguished Teaching Award in 2020.

Along with teaching, Tara’s passion is helping moms and their kids deepen their relationships with Jesus. Her previous book Abide: 40 Ways to Focus on Jesus Daily and podcast Over A Cup help women connect with Jesus throughout their day. Learn more at taralcole.com. 

How to Parent a College Student

How to Parent a College Student

How to Parent a College Student: 6 Winning Ideas

I am frequently asked to recommend resources for new and not-so-new empty nest moms. Michelle Wiener, an empty nest coach, has written this guest post How to Parent a College Student: 6 Winning Ideas. She offers tips for positive parenting in the empty nest years and beyond.

Check out her ideas for parenting college students below then head over to her website for more tips and tricks for thriving during your empty nest years.

How to Parent a College Student

How to Parent a College Student: 6 Winning Ideas

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Positive Parenting in the Empty Nest Years and Beyond

A guest post by Michelle Wiener

 

When I think about my son leaving the nest and going away to college, I know we will both go through many changes. He will be in a new environment and city, finding a new peer group, adjusting to life on his own and the rigor of college. I know I will be thinking new things and feeling new feelings.

I may be thinking things like: I miss him.I wonder what he’s doing. I hope he’s figuring things out. I hope the dorm food is okay. I want to talk to him. I may feel empty, lonely, anxious, worried, disconnected, and a loss of control. If I act from these feelings, I may not behave as intentionally as I would like to. I may be tempted to call or text him frequently, ask 101 questions about his college experience, give advice, or tell him I miss him multiple times. How will my son feel as a result? Some possible things that come to mind are annoyed, resentful, guilty, suffocated. This may lead to him wanting less frequent interactions with me.

I know I will need to manage my own feelings during this process. I will need to be kind and compassionate with myself, manage my sense of worry and anxiety about the idea of him being far away, and think of the positives for both my son and me. I will need to begin cultivating a new life for myself. By being aware of my own feelings and managing them in productive ways, I will be more likely to be my best self as a parent.

It’s helpful for me to imagine how I want my son to feel while he is away at school. I want him to feel that he has autonomy, space, independence, freedom, a solid connection to me, and a support system when he needs it. This leads me to ask myself how I want to show up as a parent for my son. Some things that come to mind are: I want to be supportive, helpful, compassionate, calm, grounded, and connected. If this is how I want to show up, I can think about what this looks like in our interactions. When my son goes to college, I will follow these 6 winning ideas for how to parent a college student:

 

  1. Give him space by communicating just enough and not too much. Perhaps we have an agreed upon frequency and method of check ins.
  2. Text or call just to say “hi” without expectation that he has to get back to me right away.
  3. Ask just enough questions to be interested and find out how he is doing but I won’t “pepper” him with one question after another.
  4. If he brings up a problem or issue, I will ask him if he wants me to just listen or if he wants my advice, help solving the problem, or to get involved.
  5. Send him occasional care packages or cards so that he knows I’m thinking of him.
  6. Ask before I schedule or plan a visit. Perhaps we agree on these in advance.

     

    I’m choosing to prepare in advance mentally for how to parent a college student. I plan to talk with my son about the changes that will come and discuss how I can be helpful and involved in his college life. I’m hopeful that being intentional in how to parent a college student will lead to a healthy and enhanced parent-child relationship in this new stage.

    Michelle Wiener

    Michelle Wiener, PhD is a Life Coach who helps empty nest women redefine their identity and purpose so they can create an exciting new chapter and live a life feeling inspired, secure, and fulfilled. If you are approaching, or are in the empty nest years, contact Michelle for a complimentary discovery call at Empty Nest Coaching.

     

    Resources for Parents of College Students

    Resources for Parents of College Students

    Resources for Parents of College Students as They Head Back to School

     

    😮 Say it isn't so! It can't really be time to get ready for the kids to head back to school or to move them to college!!! This August will be our LAST Back to School in the college realm. 🥲

    I'm not sure I have ever been as hot as the day we moved our daughter into the dorm 3 years ago. After unloading I had to park about a mile from the dorm and walk. This was Texas, y'all, in August! And then they had the brilliant idea to have a picnic OUTSIDE for us to tell our kids goodbye. I have compiled a list of Resources for Parents of College Students whether it is your first year to send off a child or you a a seasoned veteran.

    Resources for Parents of College Students

    Resources for Parents of College Students as They Head Back to School

    This post contains affiliate links. If you click on a link and make a purchase, I will receive (at no additional cost to you) a small commission, which helps pay for this blog. As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.

     

    #1 piece of advice for drop-off: Sunglasses! And a Dorm Shopping Checklist.

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    And start getting ready NOW!!

    • The Container Store is THE place for dorm shopping, new apartment shopping, and getting fun ideas for all things organizing. Get your coupon for up to 25% off. The things you buy at the Container Store are of excellent quality and will last through all four years of college and beyond. And besides it is super fun to go to the store and pick out the perfect white basket for your shoes.

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    More Back to School Resources for Parents of College Students:

    I am so excited to announce that Next Phase Parenting now has a shop!! You can now get all of the videos and information we normally only offer during our summits ALL YEAR LONG. Check out the empty nesting, parenting adult children, parenting teens, paying for college, and more videos and other resources to help you as you navigate the journey from a full nest to an empty nest.

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    The Nordstrom Anniversary sale is also on. You can pick up some back to school clothing (for you and them) and other items at the year's best prices. I just got my new UGG Slippers in the mail. I wear them all day long, every day from about October to May, so I replace them every year. Can't beat getting them on sale!!!

     

    Free Parent Resources for College Back to School

    On the not as fun list of things to think about: Be sure you are prepared in case your student needs medical treatment while away. Here is our story of when our son needed an emergency appendectomy while at school.​

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    How parents can support their college student?

    ​I hope you will check out these Resources for Parents of College Students for Back to School. Let me know your own best resources in the comments below.

     

    Summer Jobs for Teens and College Students: Over 30 Ideas for Productivity and Earnings

    Summer Jobs for Teens and College Students: Over 30 Ideas for Productivity and Earnings

    Summer Job Ideas and other Opportunities for Teens and College Students

    Every parent’s favorite summer activity for their teen or college student is a J-O-B. Nothing like getting them into the real world, collecting a pay check and having taxes deducted from it to help them see the value of their education. A  summer job doing anything whether it is hauling trash, answering phones, entering data, or taking orders at the Burger Barn is a worthwhile experience. It teaches responsibility and gives them references and experience for their future endeavors. Here are some Summer Job Ideas and Other Opportunities for Teens and College Students.

    After two summers of  few opportunities this summer should have ample options. And with the worker shortage businesses may be more willing than ever to hire summer help. Pools, water parks, tourism, and anything seasonal are especially good opportunities. Use these summer job ideas to help them find something to do out of your house!!

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    Summer Job Ideas and Other Opportunities for Teens and College Students

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    Summer Job Ideas: Try Self Employment:

    Self Employment is one of the best summer job ideas. Any skill can be marketed to neighbors, friends, and friends' Facebook contacts.

    • Babysitting: Many moms and dads are still working from home and desperately need someone to care for their children, take them to the pool, play with them, and get them out of the house.
    • Lawn mowing
    • Other yard work
    • Tutoring: Online or in small group settings. If they have an area of expertise, advertise it. Many kids are behind because of online school. Being willing to work with kids, teens, and college students to get their knowledge of a subject ready to go back in the fall of 2022 will be invaluable.
    • Computer or other technical skills (One of my sons spent a summer transferring friends’ old VHS recordings into digital formats. He then branched into video production, including weddings and promotional videos.)
    • House sitting
    • Pet sitting
    • Providing rides for kids to lessons, camps, the pool, etc. for occupied parents

     

    Summer Job Ideas: Look into the “Gig Economy”:

    • Grub Hub, Uber, and other delivery and service jobs are good summer job ideas for those who meet the age and other requirements.

    Summer Job Ideas: Take Classes for Employable Skills:

     

    Summer Job Ideas: Hire your student:

    • Here is an interesting summer job idea! Give your teen or college student a household responsibility, such as the yard, the laundry, cooking, grocery shopping, and pay them to do it.

    Apply for scholarships:

    Take Summer School:

    • Knock out a high school or college graduation requirement. My daughter knocked out 9 hours online last summer.

     Volunteer:

    • Even if they have a job, send them to a hospital, a church, or anywhere that won’t consider it trespassing if your kid hangs around trying to be helpful. Consistent volunteer work is a great college application and resume booster. Organized volunteering in a group setting may still not be available this year. Your student can create their own opportunities by making cards and dropping them off at nursing homes and doing other individual service projects.

    Summer Internships:

    • For your college kids, summer internships in their chosen field are a must. If you have a connection in that field, then it is not too late to ask if your college student could intern with them for a week or more this summer. If they cannot find anything, go to summer school to free up space in their schedule later when internships are available.
    • Most internships are applied for and accepted during the spring, so if one is not available this summer, time spent researching what internships would be possible for the next summer and the application process will pay off.
    • Ask to interview someone in a field of interest about their education and experiences. If a real live human is not available, listen to podcasts or read blogs about the profession.

    Read 7 Musts Before Senior Year:

    Plan for College

    Attend Camp:

    • Fun, sun, bonding, getting along with others, new skills and adventures. I’ve never heard of a camp that allows the kids to stay up all night, sleep all day, and make a mess of their cabin, so even though their duffle and clothes will be full of dirt, they will have an intact sleep/wake cycle when they return.

    Attend Specialized Camps and Classes

    • There are camps and classes for everything: badminton, musical theater, cheerleading, sewing, cooking, tennis, creative writing. Don’t miss the opportunity to improve a skill or acquire a new one. 

    Test Prep:

    Special Projects:

    Do you have projects you are “going to get to someday?” Hire your son or daughter to do one. Here are a few suggestions:

    • Organize photos
    • Scan photos
    • Video your house as a home inventory for insurance purposes.
    • Clean out the garage.
    • Clean out a closet.
    • Hold a garage sale with the items they have cleaned out and allow them to keep all or a percentage of the profits.

    Bucket List:

    List their textbooks:

    Sell Digital Photos:

    Start a blog:

    • Blogs give you a forum for your thoughts, teach you to create a website. (i.e. marketable skill), and sometimes make a little money. To begin you will need a host server and domain name. I use Siteground as my server and WordPress to build my site. WordPress is free. I have a custom theme called “Divi” that I purchased from Elegant Themes. I share more about blogging in this post.

    Get ready for the next school year:

    • Read the assigned summer book or books.
    • Clean out backpacks.
    • Clean out dorm stuff and pack up for the next year.

     

    While a job working for someone else is the first choice of most parents for their teen or college student, sometimes that does not work out. But, there are still plenty of ways to make productive use of time and even earn money during the summer. They can free-lance their skills and time, prepare for standardized tests (which can mean money later on), take classes, volunteer, work online, and many other possibilities.

    Tell me your summer job ideas in the comments below.

    17 Tips for Empty Nesting, College and Life Prep, and Parenting Teens

    17 Tips for Empty Nesting, College and Life Prep, and Parenting Teens

    17 Tips for Empty Nesting, College and Life Prep, and Parenting Teens

    It's been a strange week. I cut my finger slicing carrots, then I got tested for Covid after my sweet physician husband put on a steri-strip at his office.

    I had texted him to say I could not get my finger to stop bleeding. He told me to come up to the office. His text auto-corrected to “steroid strip,” so I thought he had some magic strip that would stop the bleeding, but no, it was just a super tight band-aid. In addition to my gross finger I also complained of a scratchy throat, congestion, and a headache. Off to the lab I went. I really just wanted the magic bleeding-stopping strip and not the q-tip-up-my-nose-thing again.

    My test was negative.

    Read on for the 17 Tips for Empty Nesting, College and Life Prep, and Parenting Teens.

     

     

    17 Tips for Empty Nesting

     17 Tips for Empty Nesting, College and Life Prep, and Parenting Teens

    Join me and my co-host and friend Melanie Studer at the Next Phase Parenting Summit. 17 contributors will present their most amazing tips for empty nesting, college and life prep, paying for college, and parenting teens.

    No proving you don't have COVID and you don't have to wear a mask, but it is fine if you do.

    For three whole days you can interact with parenting, college and career prep, paying for college, and empty nesting experts. These are not just “experts,” but folks who have BEEN THERE. They will share their knowledge and their hearts on their topics.

    You can also join the Free Facebook group to interact with other attendees and speakers, ask questions, and play fun games and win prizes!!

    I'll see you on the inside!

    Blessings!

    Laura